ask away, love

"The past can hurt, but the way I see it, you can either run from it or learn from it."

Sun, 12 Feb 2012 11:36:00 -0500

“The past can hurt, but the way I see it, you can either run from it or learn from it.”

- The Lion King

"Wise men don’t need advice. Fools won’t take it."

Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:27:29 -0500

“Wise men don’t need advice. Fools won’t take it.”

- Benjamin Franklin

"What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger."

Tue, 07 Feb 2012 00:13:04 -0500

“What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.”

- Kelly Clarkson

me&this guy have liked eachother since june, we went out& now were not but we still like eachother. ive always liked him but he sometimes doesnt show it. he gives me mixed signals. he's really obnoxious but hes still the cutest & sweetest thing ever. his twin likes me now&he is so incredibly sweet. i see myself more with him than the twin i actually like but liking him has already/will cause drama with EVERYONE. what should i do?

Mon, 06 Feb 2012 00:10:47 -0500

I can definitely see how that could cause drama. I think that you should think about how much you like your ex-boyfriends twin and if the drama caused by liking/going out with his twin is worth being interested in him. I think you should follow your heart but also your brain too, so you need to weigh your options.

As for your ex-boyfriend, I don’t think feelings for an ex you dated for a good amount of time ever truly goes away. I know that I still get feelings for my ex but I know that, the relationship we had happened but it will never happen again or work again.

What do I think you should do? I think you should talk to your ex and talk to his twin about what you want and then ask them what they think about it. I think that a lot of unnecessary drama is caused by a lack of communication a lot of the time and if you don’t at least know how they feel about it, whatever you decide with be at least x2 worse.

Good luck sweetie, whatever you decide. :) Again, I am so sorry this is late.

Okay, there's this guy I like, and I think he likes me? Well, I don't really know, because he's so hard to figure out, yet, he's like an open book. I really like him, and I sent him a rose for Valentine's Day. I'm afraid that I'm gonna embarrass myself in front of him. I just don't know what to do. I want to see if he likes me and I want to tell him I like him. Any advice?

Mon, 06 Feb 2012 00:01:04 -0500

Stay confident! There’s nothing more attractive than a person with confidence. Don’t be afraid to embaress yourself. You will never know if he likes you or not if you never put it out there that you like him. I know so many people who never tell the person they like that they liked them and it turns out they liked them too but nothing ever happened. Be confident and I promise, even if it turns out he doesn’t like it I’m sure he won’t think any less of you because you liked him, if anything he’ll be flattered. :)

I’m sorry for this being late! I was watching the super bowl ;) I hope this helps honey.

"Always be kind, for everyone is fighting a hard battle."

Fri, 03 Feb 2012 13:43:47 -0500

“Always be kind, for everyone is fighting a hard battle.”

- Plato

every time i try to become friends with a boy, he thinks i like him, even when i don't! how can i avoid this?

Wed, 01 Feb 2012 20:49:58 -0500

Well, the first thing I would say is to watch how you talk to him, I say this because I tend to have the same problem where I play and mess around with my guy friend and he thinks I am flirting. I would say to act the way you normally do, and if he thinks you like him you need to tell him you don’t, and if he respects that and values having a friendship that’s completely platonic with you he will understand.

I hope this helps. :)

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who..."

Wed, 01 Feb 2012 20:27:00 -0500

“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter, and those who matter don’t mind.”

- Dr. Suess